Why a "Wobbly" Plan is Better Than a Perfect One
As parents, we want to make things easier for our kids. When we see them struggling with a mountain of revision, our instinct is to step in and fix it. We buy the highlighters, download the past papers, and – crucially – we try to hand them a ready-made, colour-coded schedule. Then wonder why they’re not following it.
But there’s a biological reason why that perfect plan usually ends up in the bin by Tuesday: The IKEA Effect.
The Science: Labour Leads to Love
In 2011, researchers found that people value things they build themselves significantly more than pre-assembled versions. In their study, participants were willing to pay 63% more for a storage box they had put together (even if it was a bit wonky) than for one built by an expert.
When we hand our teens a revision plan, we are giving them “Expert Furniture.” They didn’t sweat over it, so they don’t value it. To their brain, it’s just another set of instructions from a boss. But when they have to grapple with the “flat-pack” of their own schedule—deciding where the units go and how to fit it all in—they develop ownership.
The Problem: Handing a teen a pre-made plan triggers zero sense of ownership.
The Science: We value what we build. The effort of assembly creates psychological “buy-in.”
The Shift: A “wobbly” plan they made themselves is 10x more likely to be followed than a perfect plan you made for them.
How The Study Buddy Helps
The Study Buddy approach is built entirely on this “assembly” principle. Our physical boards and movable units turn revision planning into a hands-on construction project. During the WRAP (Weekly Review And Plan) session, your teen isn’t just looking at a list; they are building their week. Because they are the ones physically moving the units and deciding the order, they become the “owner” of the plan. It moves you from being the person enforcing the rules to the person helping them finish their “build.”








