Parent Power: Unlocking Learner Success ​

When it comes to a child’s success in life, parents are the unsung heroes. ​ While schools and peer groups play obviously significant roles, the home environment has a lasting impact on a child’s character, mindset, and academic achievement. ​

Research shows that parent engagement in their child’s education is the single most influential factor in improving attainment. ​ In research by John Hattie, it was shown that parental engagement was the equivalent of adding two to three years of extra schooling. But what does parent engagement really mean, and how can parents and schools work together to foster it? Let’s dive into the findings and practical ideas from recent research. ​

Why Parent Engagement Matters

We parents are our children’s first teachers. We shape their early experiences and attitudes toward learning. ​ With three quarters of a child’s waking hours spent outside school, home remains a critical space for learning. ​ Engaged parents — that is to say those who actively participate in their child’s educational — can set high aspirations, have meaningful conversations, and demonstrate their interest in learning generally. ​ This not only boosts academic achievement but also help develop essential character traits like self-regulation, empathy, and persistence. ​

Interestingly, the more that parents and children talk about meaningful subjects, the better students perform academically. This doesn’t just mean talking about the news and current affairs.​ Conversations about school progress, external events, and hobbies can significantly shape a child’s self-concept as a learner. ​ It’s not just about being involved in school activities; it’s what parents do at home that has the greatest impact. ​

A Brief History of Parent Engagement ​

Historically, parents were the sole educators of their children, teaching them life skills and knowledge within the family or community. ​ As formal schooling became widespread in the 19th century, the roles of parents and teachers grew apart. ​ However, in recent decades, there’s been a global recognition of the importance of parent engagement, with initiatives like and Every Child Matters in England emphasizing the role of parents in education. ​

As parents, we shouldn’t underestimate the natural ability we have to motivate, encourage or sympathise with our children. No one knows them better than us. This is a key skill in helping them to find the drive they need to excel.

What Makes Parent Engagement Effective?

Research highlights six key factors that influence student achievement through parent engagement:

1. Expectations: Setting high and consistent standards for learning and behaviour. ​
2. Routines: Establishing healthy habits that promote study, well-being, and extracurricular activities. ​
3. Opportunity to Learn: Creating a stimulating home environment with books, puzzles, and quiet study spaces. ​
4. Support: Showing interest, offering praise for effort, and teaching social and learning skills. ​
5. Culture: Fostering a warm, cooperative, and positive atmosphere. ​
6. Role Modelling: Demonstrating curiosity, persistence, and a love for learning. ​

Parents can also engage in constructive activities like reading together, visiting museums, encouraging hobbies, and discussing current events. These actions not only enhance academic performance but also build confidence and resilience in children. ​

Parenting Styles and Their Impact ​

Research suggests that “tough love” – a combination of clear boundaries and warmth – is most associated with successful outcomes for children. ​ This approach helps children become self-regulating, cooperative, and socially responsible. ​ Additionally, praising children for their effort rather than any supposed innate intelligence fosters a growth mindset. It encourages them to believe that hard work and persistence can lead to success. ​

Practical Ideas for Parents ​

Here are some simple yet impactful steps to support your child’s learning:

1. Set Expectations: Help your child set goals and believe in their ability to grow through effort. ​
2. Establish Routines: Use mealtimes for conversations, set aside time for reading, and create space for your child to share their worries. ​(Read more about creating routines here.)
3. Provide Learning Opportunities: Fill your home with books, games, and puzzles, and find activities to learn together. ​Talk about what was learnt at school, and ask reaching questions to encourage a bit of out-of-class research you could do together (and “let’s google it” counts as research!)
4. Offer Support: Celebrate effort, teach your child to practice, and normalise making mistakes as part of learning. ​If you’re a reward giving parent, make the treat about the effort that was put in, not the result at the end. Remember; we’re after progress, not perfection.
5. Foster a Positive Culture: Encourage questioning, notice your child’s passions, and share how you cope with challenges. ​ Don’t be afraid to share when things don’t go well or as expected and maybe event encourage their input as to what you might do next.
6. Be a Role Model: Talk about your own learning experiences, share your passions, and discuss people you admire. ​Be sure to display the kinds of behaviours and attitudes you want in your children. They may not always do as they are told, but they will do as you do.

The Bottom Line

Parent engagement is a powerful tool for shaping successful learners. ​ By setting high expectations, fostering meaningful conversations, and creating a positive home environment, parents can significantly influence their child’s academic and personal development. ​ Schools, too, have a role to play in supporting and encouraging parent engagement. ​ Together, parents and schools can unlock the full potential of every child, preparing them not just for exams but for life in a rapidly changing world.

So, embrace the power of parent engagement and create your own confident, curious, and resilient learner.

For more on how you can parent your child through their education, check out our podcast series. Each episode looks at an aspect of how we can support out teens.